Stop letting others dictate you. Stop being what others want you to be. Stop being second-rate. You know you really hurt yourself by following another.
Celebrate yourself. Be yourself. You have been given a beautiful life, so live it.
Everyone of us sometime or the other feels insecure and hurt. Being in this state just can be extremely painful. Being angry and stopping communication never resolves the matter. So, keep the doors of your heart and mind open and always carry a smile on that face of yours.
Laugh and smile, be carefree. Have an attitude of gratitude.
Remember this is your life. You are the mystery. You are the journey. You are exquisite. You are magical. You are beautiful.