Please ask yourself these two fundamental questions:
- What enhances your life?
- What inhibits your life?
- Other people
- Which of these (things you thought of) do you control?
- Which of these (things you thought of) are outside your control?
This leads to the essence of how you could manage your life. You could start operating on the simple ABC and AUC principle:
- ABC - Areas Beyond (my) Control
- AUC - Areas Under (my) Control
Thank you Arjun Aiyar for sharing this knowledge with me.